“The master will never be happy until he is a Master. The slave will never be happy until she is a slave. It is what we are.” Page 159 – Explorers of Gor
The life of a female slave,” he said,”is a life wholly given over to love. It is not a compromised life. It is not one of those lives which is part this, and part that. It is a total way of life, a total life… There are no bargains made with her, no arrangements.” Page 435 – Mercenaries of Gor
“More real than the law is the heart.” Tahari Proverb
Page 146 – Tribesmen of Gor
an owned kajira – twelve months on
this girls ardent, selfless affection and dedication, to Master, what it means to be an owned kajira . it has been a while since girl wrote on her being and of Gorean ways, it is twelve months since Master and this one met, it has been a wonderful and sometimes testing and trying time, and with an open and honest heart, this one gives her perspective.
Willingly and freely surrendered her totality of being to Master.
By submitting to a Master you are put before him for consideration or approval. However, owned kajira not only submit, they must also surrender. Owned kajira willingly and freely give up all choice and decisions by accepting their Master. Masters’ word is final and absolute in all things, even when Master is wrong, he is right, girls last words should always be ‘yes Master’,
it can be hard to relinquish all control, especially since in the modern world women are taught to be independent, to be strong and self reliant, however in finding herself and in the act of submitting it frees a girl from all those restrictions and she can finally be what she truly is, she can explore and find her true self and for the first time experience the totality of freedom in being owned,
Owned kajira have no rights, only privileges, granted or removed as Master deems appropriate.
As human beings we have grown up with concept of our own rights. We have a right of choice, a right to decide what we want, a right to act without asking permission, a right to choose work, what to wear, who to talk to, be our own person.
Owned kajirae give up those rights. A simple privilege like writing or speaking freely, can be taken away, without any explanation, regardless of girls’ feelings, if Master decided he did not want girl to, then so be it…….girls owned, she gave up free choice.
girl belongs to Him. Mind, Body, Soul, Heart.
For an owned kajira, it becomes more than just ‘play’ sessions. It is a deep-seated need to belong to that person in our entirety, 24/7.
Master has demanded and claimed the whole of girl’s heart, thoughts, and spirit, that which cries out to be with him. With him girl is whole and complete and only feels complete with him as Master. Belonging to Master her desire is in being able to serve and to please him. If Master isn’t pleased, he has every right to punish her in any way he deems appropriate. He also has every right to chastise just because it pleases him.
live to please him. His will is girl’s desire.
Reading this may, you may think wtf?! Why would anyone have one person as their existence? This is something internal and personal within an owned kajira. Only with Master and being owned can a girl be complete, one cannot be kajira without giving Master her all. The only thing left within then, becomes the desire to serve and to remain owned. This one cannot now comprehend life without Master, or a life as unowned or free. Master is girls whole world and no matter how much it hurts, girl would do anything he asked.
Trusting Master, totally without condition or question.
A good Master who is true to himself would not think of collaring a submissive unless he was prepared to take on the inherent responsibility it implies, trust is placed in any Master or Dom. For owned kajirae, it goes beyond that basic conditional trust, Master owns this one, to surrender to him completely, there’s no choice but to have a trust in him that has no boundaries or conditions. An example being that as an owned kajira, there is no safe word, girl’s trust in Master is to push her limits, but that he will recognise when to step back
be true to what we are.
We all, with degrees, instinctively hide our true selves from others, whether that be thoughts, feelings, desires, needs. An owned kajira cannot hide, be true to what you are, is one of the tenets by which we live, as is honesty.
That means dropping that entire facade, those barriers that come to play when we feel we need to protect ourselves. Girl’s la kajira. It is not her place to hide any emotions, or tame them, unless Master wishes. It is girls place to be the loving, sensual, caring, frightened, strong, impatient, intelligent, emotional, imaginative, wild person that she is.
love is not to be fought against, only fought for. You cannot win the fight, if the fight is to not love someone.
Being an owned kajira means accepting what girl is and being fortunate to find in her Master, true love and completion.