Master yourself kajirae/kajiri

You must, accordingly, strive to understand, relate to, serve and please the unique master in each man. You must bring your own individual personalities and talents to bear on his challenge. Try in your uniqueness to be perfect and special for him in his uniqueness. Read him. Learn him. Become acutely aware of him. Be sensitive to his moods, and his changes. Find out what he wants from you, and then see that he gets it, and more. Find out what he wants you to be and then be it, beyond his wildest dreams. Remember that you are the slave. You exist for his service and pleasure.”
~Kajira of Gor~

to say la kajira or le kajirus, to follow and serve you need to know how to be, and what is expected. This is not a complete list, just a few important basics, your Master and/or family will have their own to add.

Obedience, Honesty, Honour, Loyalty, Respect

Obedience… is required. When an instruction is given, it is not the time to negotiate, no discussion. Hesitation to follow instructions immediately will be met with punishment. Obey ALL commands given to you by your Master, He commands well within His rights.

Honesty… with all, no matter of that person’s caste or status at all times. If you have done something that you know your Master will not be pleased about nor has any knowledge of, the best thing you can do is to come clean about it, with truth and honesty. By doing so, and importantly, you protect the integrity and trust in the relationship. Don’t be afraid to share your needs, health concerns, everything. Lying or being less than honest will only lead to problems.

Honour… All your actions reflect on your Master and/or the family. Your honour is the only thing you own. At all times you should defend and protect the family reputation. This means you should always show your training and place within the family and Gor

Loyalty… faithful adherence to your Master, be prepared to defend Him with your life. Remember your name reflects your devotion to your Master and/or your family. And loyalty to your submission, faithful to your commitments and your obligations.

Respect … Respect EVERYONE no matter His/her caste, rank or if you like that person or not. Respect is MANDATORY. It is considered disrespectful to turn your back on a Master and girls should never cross in front of the path of a Master; she should walk behind Him.

forgive this one

been away for a while and neglecting things, however this one does have a genuine reason,

having been laid up quite literally, it is going to take this girl some time to recover fully so please do bear with us and sure normal service will be resumed soon 😉

Master has been an absolute diamond during girls illness, he had to take off girls collar, as at the hospital, this one was fighting the nurses who tried to touch it, this one has no recollection of this happening being very poorly, Master had to calm her and unlock the collar, allowing the staff to then do what they needed, 

happy to say it is now back on and securely locked, the collar symbolises many things to different people, for Master it shows him this one is his, it means more than any wedding ring, Master has given this one leave of her duties as at present she isn’t able to do a lot, and there was concerns ,  being unable to complete duties, if Master would want to take on a new first girl, or should girl maybe run, Master is content waiting for this one to recover fully, which is a great relief and is happier knowing that his girl wont run, smiles to self, not that its possible to run anywhere at present, and girl wouldn’t anyway, it wouldn’t be worth the punishment, giggles, Master has shown his self to be a wonderful man and this girl is very lucky to be owned by him

anyway just an update and this one will write some more when she is well

be well

fundamental Gor

in brief, the Gorean lifestyle is based upon a philosophy and set of tenets, which sprung out of a series of 30 or so books written by John Frederick Lange, Jr., who is a professor of philosophy , and whose pen name was John Norman .

the books include a variety of societies, cultures, moral concepts, and technologies that are described in depth in the novels; however set usually always within the context of the male adventure genre.

His fiction place an emphasis on living in accordance with a Nietzschean natural order, supporting a hierarchy of talent, especially strength. He uses this hierarchy as a framework to analyse gender role differences in society, and he contends that the woman is by nature a submissive and figurative slave of the dominant man.

Gorean philosophy is also based on set tenets formulated by Marcus Aurelius the 16th emperor of Rome and himself a stoic philosopher, they are useful and helpful in living in society even today, those being strength, loyalty, honesty, personal accountability, and integrity, living an open and honest way and being true to yourself and true nature.

Gorean themes also are heavily influenced by social darwinism — only the strongest will survive,

Gor doesn’t always sit well within the bdsm community, indeed it can and does function and exist separately away from it.

It seems to have split into an online game players realm and those who choose to live it, those who live it don’t always mix well with those who play, it can get very territorial, but the basic ways of living hold true, and would do for many if they chose to follow a better life.

so that’s about as brief as it can be without going into too much detail, helps you get the fundamental jist of things

It is what we are

“The master will never be happy until he is a Master. The slave will never be happy until she is a slave. It is what we are.” Page 159 – Explorers of Gor

The life of a female slave,” he said,”is a life wholly given over to love. It is not a compromised life. It is not one of those lives which is part this, and part that. It is a total way of life, a total life… There are no bargains made with her, no arrangements.” Page 435 – Mercenaries of Gor

“More real than the law is the heart.” Tahari Proverb
Page 146 – Tribesmen of Gor


an owned kajira – twelve months on


this girls ardent, selfless affection and dedication, to Master, what it means to be an owned kajira . it has been a while since girl wrote on her being and of Gorean ways, it is twelve months since Master and this one met, it has been a wonderful and sometimes testing and trying time, and with an open and honest heart, this one gives her perspective.


Willingly and freely surrendered her totality of being to Master.

By submitting to a Master you are put before him for consideration or approval. However, owned kajira not only submit, they must also surrender. Owned kajira willingly and freely give up all choice and decisions by accepting their Master. Masters’ word is final and absolute in all things, even when Master is wrong, he is right, girls last words should always be ‘yes Master’,

it can be hard to relinquish all control, especially since in the modern world women are taught to be independent, to be strong and self reliant, however in finding herself and in the act of submitting it frees a girl from all those restrictions and she can finally be what she truly is, she can explore and find her true self and for the first time experience the totality of freedom in being owned,


Owned kajira have no rights, only privileges, granted or removed as Master deems appropriate.

As human beings we have grown up with concept of our own rights. We have a right of choice, a right to decide what we want, a right to act without asking permission, a right to choose work, what to wear, who to talk to, be our own person.
Owned kajirae give up those rights. A simple privilege like writing or speaking freely, can be taken away, without any explanation, regardless of girls’ feelings, if Master decided he did not want girl to, then so be it…….girls owned, she gave up free choice.


girl belongs to Him. Mind, Body, Soul, Heart.

For an owned kajira, it becomes more than just ‘play’ sessions. It is a deep-seated need to belong to that person in our entirety, 24/7.
Master has demanded and claimed the whole of girl’s heart, thoughts, and spirit, that which cries out to be with him. With him girl is whole and complete and only feels complete with him as Master. Belonging to Master her desire is in being able to serve and to please him. If Master isn’t pleased, he has every right to punish her in any way he deems appropriate. He also has every right to chastise just because it pleases him.

live to please him. His will is girl’s desire.

Reading this may, you may think wtf?! Why would anyone have one person as their existence? This is something internal and personal within an owned kajira. Only with Master and being owned can a girl be complete, one cannot be kajira without giving Master her all. The only thing left within then, becomes the desire to serve and to remain owned. This one cannot now comprehend life without Master, or a life as unowned or free. Master is girls whole world and no matter how much it hurts, girl would do anything he asked.

Trusting Master, totally without condition or question.

A good Master who is true to himself would not think of collaring a submissive unless he was prepared to take on the inherent responsibility it implies, trust is placed in any Master or Dom. For owned kajirae, it goes beyond that basic conditional trust, Master owns this one, to surrender to him completely, there’s no choice but to have a trust in him that has no boundaries or conditions. An example being that as an owned kajira, there is no safe word, girl’s trust in Master is to push her limits, but that he will recognise when to step back


be true to what we are.

We all, with degrees, instinctively hide our true selves from others, whether that be thoughts, feelings, desires, needs. An owned kajira cannot hide, be true to what you are, is one of the tenets by which we live, as is honesty.

That means dropping that entire facade, those barriers that come to play when we feel we need to protect ourselves. Girl’s la kajira. It is not her place to hide any emotions, or tame them, unless Master wishes. It is girls place to be the loving, sensual, caring, frightened, strong, impatient, intelligent, emotional, imaginative, wild person that she is.

love is not to be fought against, only fought for. You cannot win the fight, if the fight is to not love someone.

Being an owned kajira means accepting what girl is and being fortunate to find in her Master, true love and completion.